A singular they pronoun has been used since the 14th century. Some people might not feel comfortable using the pronoun they grew up with. Just like someone who uses she/her pronouns wouldn't want to be called "he," A person who uses xe/hir pronouns wouldn't want to be called "he."
subject pronoun
Object Pronoun
Possessive pronoun
reflexive pronoun
possessive determiner
She lost her phone.
that phone belongs to her.
that phone is hers.
she blames herself.
look for her phone.
She
her
hers
herself
her
he
him
his
himself
him
they
them
theirs
themself
their
*ae
aer
aers
aerself
aer
*e
em
eirs
emself
eir
*ee
ee
ees
eeself
ees
*e
em
es
emself
es
*e
e
es
eself
es
*ey
em
eirs
emself
eir
ey
em
eirs
eirself
eir
hir
hir
hirs
hirself
hir
it
it
its
itself
its
je
jem
jeirs
jemself
jem
per
per
pers
perself
pers
ve
ver
vis
verself
vis
xe
hir
hirs
hirself
hir
xe
xir
xirs
xirself
xir
xe
xem
xyrs
xemself
xyr
xe
xem
xis
xirmself
xis
xie
xiem
xyrs
xemself
xyr
zay
zir
zirs
zirself
zir
ze
hir
hirs
hirself
hir
ze
zir
zirs
zirself
zir
ze
zan
zans
zanself
zan
zed
zed
zeds
zedself
zed
zed
zed
zeirs
zeirself
zeir
zhe
zhim
zhirs
zhirself
zhir
zie
zir
zirs
zirself
zir
One of the first examples of gender neutral pronouns is from Charles Crozat Converse, who presented the Idea of the pronoun "Thon," short for "that one." This pronoun was added into the dictionary in the 1930s, but is known to be used since the 1850s.
What is commonly known as "Spivak pronouns," includes pronouns popularized by James Rogers (E/em/es), David Lindsay (ae/aer/aers), Christine M. Elverson (ey,em,eir), Lillian Carlton and Donald MacKay (ee/ees/eeself), and Michael Spivak and Roger Crew (E/Em/Eir)
James Rogers first used E/em/es in an 1890 editorial as an acknowledgement of Charles Crozat Converse's "thon."
David Lindsay used the pronouns ae/aer, now known as Lindsay pronouns, in the 1920 novel, A Voyage to Arcturus.
The Chicago Association of Business Communicators awarded Christine M. Elverson for finding the gender neutral pronouns ey/em/eir, which is a modified version of they/them/their pronouns without the "th." Elverson made these "transgender pronouns" to make a sentence smoother, without having to write "he/she" or getting confused by using "they" too many times in a sentence.
linguist and poet Lillian Carlton reported the newfound pronouns of "an American professor," believed to be Dr. Donald MacKay. The pronouns known as epicene, or bisexual Pronouns (ee/ees/eeself), were thought to be too complicated and confusing by Carlton. In modern times, kids are taught about "kind Ed," or the "silent E," which "makes the vowel say its name." Though epicene pronouns have mostly been ignored because of the way the "silent E" impacts the English language, they are still rarely used.
Michael Spivak created the pronouns E/Em/Eir to refer to a person using gender neutral pronouns in his 1983 book, The Joy of TEX: A Gourmet Guide to Typesetting with the AMS-TEX Macro Package. In 1991, a LambdaMOO programmer included E/Em/Eir pronouns under the gender "Spivak," giving the option for players to be referred to in said pronouns.